11. You can’t ride two horses with one arse

Dear Marlowe,

Confucius said “The man who chases two rabbits catches neither.” I prefer the Hungarian version — you can’t ride two horses with one arse.

It is ever tempting to do too much. Take on too many projects, or otherwise over-commit. However, doing less but better is ultimately more fulfilling. To achieve your potential at something involves saying no to things that distract you from it which frees you up to focus.

These decisions are not always easy. Deciding to commit to something wholeheartedly takes courage. Don’t worry though, you can always change direction later if you want to, just be sure to give things your best shot, and not compromise what you could accomplish by spreading yourself thin. One arse, one horse.

Love,

Dad.
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